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The speaker is found on the bottom of both devices as you can see by the grille here.
The other obvious physical difference is the screen size and capacitive buttons. The Lumia 800 display is 3.7 inches due to the inclusion of the three capacitive touch buttons while the N9 is 3.9 inches.
The same excellent use of glass that wraps to the edges is found on the Lumia 800.